Love Yourself First — What the Lenormand Cards Teach Us About Attraction and Energy
Most people who come for a reading don’t really want to know the future — they want to know why love feels so far away.
They ask, “When will I meet the right person?” or “Will they come back?”
I understand the ache behind these questions; we’ve all been there.
But here’s a truth the cards show me again and again:
When you chase love, it runs.
When you become love, it finds you.
The Energy of Self-Love
Years ago, I read Kamal Ravikant’s small but powerful book Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It.
He writes that loving yourself isn’t a luxury — it’s oxygen.
It’s the frequency that tells the universe: I am ready for more good things.
In Lenormand readings, this is more than a metaphor.
The cards are an energetic mirror.
When you love yourself, they begin to reflect openness, warmth, and possibility.
When you don’t, the same spreads can show confusion, repetition, or emotional exhaustion.
The Lenormand Mirror
If you’ve worked with the cards, you know their precision.
They reveal not only people and events, but your current vibration.
Here’s what I often see:
Heart + Cross — love through pain, a pattern of sacrifice.
Heart + Sun — radiant joy, energy that attracts naturally.
Lily + Anchor — peace and maturity, rooted self-worth.
Moon + Snake — charm masking self-doubt.
The message isn’t judgment; it’s feedback.
The universe isn’t punishing you — it’s inviting you to tune yourself back into harmony.
A Small Practice
Take your deck and ask,
“What kind of love am I giving myself right now?”
Draw three cards:
What I need
What I resist
What I must embrace
Look closely.
The first card often names your unmet need — the part of you that longs to be seen.
The second shows the wall — fear, pride, or a story you’ve carried too long.
The third reveals your medicine — the energy that will help you return to yourself.
Repeat this once a week for a month.
Watch how your readings — and your relationships — begin to change.
When You Love Yourself, Life Loves You Back
Self-love doesn’t make you selfish.
It makes you magnetic.
It shifts your field from chasing love to radiating it.
The cards don’t predict your worth — they reflect it.
And when your heart, mind, and energy align, the universe responds in kind.
“When you learn to read your own heart as clearly as your cards, love stops being something to find — and becomes something that finds you.”
Warm regards, Gabriel
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